What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Wendy
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What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby Wendy » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:13 am

I am not having much success in wearing female clothes and not drawing attention.
I want to shift my clothing slowly so that no one notices. I did wear a business
woman's wool white pants to work and got no comments. They looked good and got no
reaction. That was perfect.

How can people shift gradually so that no one notices?

tekla
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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby tekla » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:13 am

Perhaps shift to a more unisex look, but clothing is pretty gender marked in most
people's eyes.

Louise
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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby Louise » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:14 am

I have worn women's jeans and tee shirts in public without comment. Some shirts
are gender neutral while others are very feminine. You might try wearing a
woman's oxford style shirt. It is definitely feminine but it may not attract all
that much attention. It is harder to find shoes that are more unisex.
Sandals or sneakers could work. I have a pair of women's leather sandals that I
wear all the time in the summer. They are definitely unisex.

Louise

Nero
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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby Nero » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:14 am

Same as above suggestions - Just start shopping in the women's section, but avoid
anything that's clearly female. A lot of women's jeans and shirts are the same style as
men's. Then slowly work up to more feminine styles and colors. Just wearing clothes
made for women should make you feel a little more comfortable.

Genevieve Swann
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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby Genevieve Swann » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:15 am

You can look in many clothing catalogs or fashion magazines and find clothing that
doesn't draw much attention. The kind of stuff you normally wouldn't pay attention to.
Probably no one else does either. I'm not sure why it matters if others pay attention
or not.

Janet_Girl
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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby Janet_Girl » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:15 am

For me, when I went full time I left work on vacation for a week as male.
Returned after as female and have never been seen as male again.

But I used to wear female lingerie under my male clothes.

Wendy
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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby Wendy » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:16 am

Louise wrote, "You might try wearing a woman's oxford style shirt."

Good idea. I have been wearing male sateen shirts in different colors. They
look nice. A woman's Oxford should work. Women's sneakers are long enough
but not wide enough.
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Nero I am quite self conscious to shop in the female section of department
stores. Catalogs are difficult because my size is not standard.

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Genevieve wrote, "I'm not sure why it matters if others pay attention or not."

Because I look like a male and have a high probability of getting fired.

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Janet wrote, "But I used to wear female lingerie under my male clothes."

I have been wearing a sports bra for a couple of years because it hurts if I do
not. As long as you don't get arrested no one sees your undies so that is
acceptable to do what you want.

.......................

People now think I have turned "super" gay. The teenage minority boys will
outright ask me if I am gay. They also will touch me. Several are
inappropriate and rude. I do look different. I would like to move slowly
and let everyone adjust. Maybe I don't have to lose everything.

Autumn
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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby Autumn » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:16 am

Womens' clothing, if you don't go for frills, lace, and extra skin exposure, is
basically like mens' except more form fitting with less room in the shoulders and more
in the hips/ass. And darting at the breasts/waist to add shape. With the buttons/etc on
the opposite side.

You may be able to find simple, plain button down shirts and slacks that fit you
alright. But keep in mind that they are shaped for someone who has an ass and breasts,
especially as you go up into the larger sizes where it's more pronounced. Try Lands End
for prudish female professional attire :v

And try leather professional styled loafers and other slipon shoes. if you shop online,
like at shoebuy.com, overstock, zappos (in particular), etc you can often find a wide
range of sizes available for shoes with good shipping/return policies.

Ell
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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby Ell » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:17 am


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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

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Wendy
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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby Wendy » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:18 am

Autumn I go for the granny look. However the form fitting look nicer because I do
have a waist. Pants tend to be difficult because I do not have a behind or
hips. I do have big legs so that the right cut looks good and professional.

At work I wear my jacket from morning until night. I can wear use some beautiful
ties which usually get compliments. The Jerry Garcia collection is really
nice.

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Ell wrote, "i don't exactly understand the question because, oh lordy, they *do*
notice!"

Hi Ell. Hope you have been well! The educated adults have yet to say
one word to me. They just say I look good and I look different.
However several poor inner city minority males take about 5 seconds to get in my
face to make a comment. Most of the inner city females are very nice to me.

Ell I would prefer everyone knew so that I would not have to hide all day.

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Barbie your pics look great. My measurements are 40B/C-33-39 (which is good for
me but very male except for the B/C) . You are 35-27-36 if I were to guess.
You have a nice thin female figure.

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My girlfriend goes around in conservative female clothing. She has a male face
but beautiful hair and once in a while someone gets confused. However she could
care less what people think. She is out and goes by her male name. She is
very comfortable with herself. That is nice.

I am trying to find a way to move off of center but at a snail's pace.

Bombi
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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby Bombi » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:18 am

Women's polo shirts and caro capri pants are good. Jeans and T-shirts as well.

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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby Annwyn » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:19 am

There's no such thing as people, "not noticing."

You're switching from one extreme to another and society isn't at the point yet where
it readily accepts in betweens.

Wendy
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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby Wendy » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:19 am

Annwyn wrote, "There's no such thing as people, "not noticing."

You're switching from one extreme to another and society isn't at the point yet where
it readily accepts in betweens."

People notice something but I think they guess wrong. I am accepted by many as an
in between but they address me as sir. I will ask a couple of girlfriends to help
me shop.

Annwyn
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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby Annwyn » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:20 am

If you want to wear girls clothing then wear girls clothing. If you're gonna shop
for girls clothes so you can look like a guy, then you're wasting your money.

Mister
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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby Mister » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:20 am

Socks. Scarves (the winter kind). That's about it.

Annwyn
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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby Annwyn » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:20 am

The elephant/waterfall scene in your avi reminds me of bukakke.


Disturbing.

Wendy
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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby Wendy » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:21 am

Annwyn when you wear girl's clothing you look like a girl. When I wear girl's
clothing I look like a guy in girl's clothing. Most of the older folks that I
know in the support groups lost their wife, job and house. Many are well educated
and talented and as soon as they walk into an interview the interview is over.

The chairperson at the training session on Sunday said, "If I knew how tough it would
be I am not sure I would have transitioned. However I am happier when it was
over." She is still friends with her ex and she rebuilt her business.

My relationship is much different with my wife but we are still best friends. I now
work a new job as a male. I would most likely be fired if I push the envelop too
far.

However society does accept some things. These days you can be a "different"
male. Therefore I keep pushing the envelop. I look very different than I
did four years ago.

I will try my way of doing things because it is my life. Yes I have wasted a lot
of money. Your input is very accurate

I see a lot of good ideas and I will continue to waste my money. I will slowly
find my way and will do it my way. Maybe I can keep a job. Maybe I will
keep my wife. Maybe even a few friends will stay but probably not. I have
new friends.

Annwyn
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Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

Postby Annwyn » Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:21 am

Oh well. If you own your own business then you're much better off than I
am. I can only blow about 1000 a week on clothes, you probably have more money
than that to dispose of.

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