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by Louise
Mon Feb 27, 2017 11:04 pm
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: Learning how to cross dress...
Replies: 9
Views: 1020

Re: Learning how to cross dress...

I am not exactly one to give advice on how to pass since I don't think I pass very well. But I do like to dress well. Learning to dress well is a matter of practice and observation. Look at other women to see how they dress and do their makeup and hair. Observe what looks good and what doesn't look ...
by Louise
Fri Feb 24, 2017 1:01 am
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: Glamor Shots
Replies: 19
Views: 1467

Re: Glamor Shots

I think that any one of us would honestly say that we would love to pass. For some of us it is a reasonable goal, for others it is pure fantasy. I do not go out dressed en femme very often, but when I do I try to pass. I am realistic enough to know that I do not pass very well, but I am enough of a...
by Louise
Wed Feb 22, 2017 11:41 pm
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: crossdressing and sexuality
Replies: 19
Views: 1518

Re: crossdressing and sexuality

Although gender and sexuality are not the same thing, it is difficult at times to separate them. I can say that I am a heterosexual male who enjoys expressing my feminine side by dressing en femme. But what exactly is "expressing the feminine"? It is not just wearing the clothes, although ...
by Louise
Sat Feb 11, 2017 11:28 pm
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: Is Stuttering common among CDS, TS?
Replies: 19
Views: 1499

Re: Is Stuttering common among CDS, TS?

As a child I had a problem with stuttering, but this went away by the time I was in my late teens or early twenties. I never had reading problems and was a very precocious reader. I have always been extremely shy and attribute this in part to my early stuttering. I never liked having to speak in fro...
by Louise
Sat Feb 11, 2017 11:23 pm
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: Favorite color
Replies: 19
Views: 1450

Re: Favorite color

Although I'd say that blue is my favorite color, that is not the same as the colors that I like to wear. One of the things I like most about wearing women's clothing is the great variety of colors that we get to wear as opposed to the relatively drab palette available in men's attire. I like wearing...
by Louise
Mon Feb 06, 2017 8:13 am
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: Be gentle
Replies: 10
Views: 730

Re: Be gentle

Welcome to Susans. You are among friends here. Many of us have been through the same things. One thing that most of us would agree on is that quitting is not an option. I am a married crossdresser in my 60's. After living most of my life deep in the closet I came out to my wife about nine years ago....
by Louise
Sun Feb 05, 2017 3:18 am
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: Progress
Replies: 19
Views: 1026

Re: Progress

Lizbeth, It is good to hear that you and your wife are communicating, but openness can often be painful as well. The others here have given you some good advice, particularly about the need to keep communications open and apologizing for past transgressions. My wife is very accepting of my crossdres...
by Louise
Tue Jan 24, 2017 7:14 am
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?
Replies: 19
Views: 976

Re: What female clothes can you wear that do not draw attention?

I have worn women's jeans and tee shirts in public without comment. Some shirts are gender neutral while others are very feminine. You might try wearing a woman's oxford style shirt. It is definitely feminine but it may not attract all that much attention. It is harder to find shoes that are more un...

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