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by Cassandra
Wed Feb 22, 2017 11:40 pm
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: crossdressing and sexuality
Replies: 19
Views: 2123

Re: crossdressing and sexuality

Hi Lora, Welcome to Susan's. I can't really answer your questions from a CD standpoint. I only know that component from my CD friends here. I'm a MtF TS. I live full time. But, perhaps I can give you another point of view. I have never been sexually turned on by dressing enfemme. It is merely a natu...
by Cassandra
Wed Feb 22, 2017 11:26 pm
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: out in the open
Replies: 19
Views: 1951

Re: out in the open

Amen to that Gina. One should really not care what other people think. Sure in the context of Teri's thoughts on the matter there are people whose thinking can affect things like housing and jobs. It is a tough road but there are other houses and other jobs so what one person thinks shouldn't matter...
by Cassandra
Wed Feb 22, 2017 11:23 pm
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: out in the open
Replies: 19
Views: 1951

Re: out in the open

I couldn't agree more Teri. There is no halfway for a TS. You are either in or you are out, if you're not sure then you need to reevaluate your position. This is a serious deal with permanent consequences for those who are uncertain. Be sure, be very sure before you proceed further or you will have ...
by Cassandra
Wed Feb 22, 2017 11:22 pm
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: out in the open
Replies: 19
Views: 1951

Re: out in the open

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You will if you put your mind to it.

Cassie
by Cassandra
Wed Feb 22, 2017 11:20 pm
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: out in the open
Replies: 19
Views: 1951

Re: out in the open

Hey Tammy, Fact is you live with your parents and as long as you do they get to call the shots. I'm a little confused though. You say you want to tell your parents but you mother calls you a crossdresser out of spite. Which is it? Do they know or not? If it was me and my mother called me a crossdres...
by Cassandra
Mon Feb 13, 2017 11:06 pm
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: Outed At The Office
Replies: 13
Views: 1491

Re: Outed At The Office

Personally I bristle a little at this jump to getting an attorney. So far no real damage has been done. Running to an attorney because people look at you funny when they find out you're TG just makes us all look like a bunch of whiners. Unless there is some real damage or discrimination involved it ...
by Cassandra
Mon Feb 13, 2017 11:05 pm
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: Outed At The Office
Replies: 13
Views: 1491

Re: Outed At The Office

Whoa there Paula. There was no indication of harrasment in Chantelle's post and copying documents in a security environment can get someone in a lot of trouble or at least lead to accusations of espionage even if the documents are seemingly personal. In some environments the mere suspicion is suffic...
by Cassandra
Mon Feb 13, 2017 11:03 pm
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: Outed At The Office
Replies: 13
Views: 1491

Re: Outed At The Office

Chantelle, for the life of me I cannot understand why you felt it necessary to say anything at all at this point. Anything you say to your therapist is confidential. You don't dress except at home so it was really a non-issue at work. If your concern was attempted blackmail then anyone who tried you...
by Cassandra
Fri Feb 10, 2017 4:17 pm
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: the price I pay to be out
Replies: 19
Views: 1580

Re: the price I pay to be out

I totally agree with that ChefAnnaGirl, We pay a price everyday for being out and being who we are. I see no end to that but like you I believe it is a price worth paying. By the by, anybody ever tell you you look very much like Lily Tomlin? I love her so that is a compliment. Cassie
by Cassandra
Fri Feb 10, 2017 4:13 pm
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: the price I pay to be out
Replies: 19
Views: 1580

Re: the price I pay to be out

Ladies please, getting a little too caught up in the personal. I found ChefAnnaGirl's post thoughtful except when it started going in this direction. I really don't think Leigh's question was personal. It was a legitimate question and well on topic. Lets take a deep breath. Everyone has a qualified ...
by Cassandra
Sun Feb 05, 2017 3:18 am
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: Progress
Replies: 19
Views: 1423

Re: Progress

Hi Lisabeth, Time, patience and communication are the keys here. You say you have enough. Good, let that tide you over until you can come to some understanding that will allow an occasional self indulgence. Just don't do it behind her back. A straight forward I'm going to buy this anyway and I hope ...
by Cassandra
Sun Feb 05, 2017 3:16 am
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: Progress
Replies: 19
Views: 1423

Re: Progress

Hi Lisabeth, I really feel for you. When your wife said she wanted honesty what she wanted to know was had you been going on behind her back. This you admitted to. The fact is if you want to preserve this marriage you should not have gone behind her back on this. It constitutes a betrayal. Your fem ...
by Cassandra
Sun Feb 05, 2017 3:14 am
Forum: Crossdress discussion 1
Topic: Progress
Replies: 19
Views: 1423

Re: Progress

Congratulation Lisabeth,

It just goes to show with time patience and communication it is possible to get beyond
the misunderstandings and the plain old rejection of who we are. Kudos.

Cassie

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